Hi Billel,
Not sure I understand your question but I think you are asking about doing development on your host machine, but deploying to a server (in this case a VM). When I do this sort of thing what I normally do is configure me build.<username>.properties file based on my host machine resources. I don all my builds without the introduction of the "remote" machine (even if it is a VM). When I am ready to push something to the server (assuming you are using ANT) you can use the "WAR" ANT target which will create a WAR file in the SDK_HOME/dist folder that you can scp (ssh copy) to the VM and deploy.
Alternatively, you could use a mapped drive. You could on your host machine create some network shares that point to the locations on your VM. You configure your build.<username>.properties file to use the map drive locations. That might do the magic for you. I've never actually done this to be honest, but I have used symlinks to do something similar -- so no reason why it shouldn't work with permissions and all that being correct.
